Strict Venus SSC Femdom - F.A.Q. and Land Rules

We created this page to answer to the most common questions about the Land Rules. Our rules are not exhaustive of course, and about specific subjects they can lack of information. Moreover, we wish to write here a general guide for good behaviour between Ladies and submissives (and vice-versa) to help and keep the relationships of our Femdom the more pacific as possible. These F.A.Q. are to be intended as a compendium to the Land Rules, and so to be followed by both Ladies and subs. If - at any time - you see that one of the rules is being broken, you may politely IM the person (asking first in chat if is a Lady) and point out about these rules/F.A.Q, to be followed. 

We write here again the basic House Rules (updated: 2017-04-22):

Strict Venus is a Femdom land where Safe Sane Consensual (and fun) are the basic rules, always along with Respect for the other(s). If you are not familiar with these basic concepts, you might like to check your English dictionary before continuing the visit. About the 'fun' concept: that's Ladies' fun, of course. This is a Femdom.

We welcome you in our land, where the following House Rules are expected to be followed:

#1. Mutual respect is the base of the communication: Please use common courtesy when interacting with others: subs must use a title when addressing any Domme (in case of doubt use: 'Miss' when addressing them or check their profiles for specific addressing).
Dommes: respect as well a sub's limits and restrictions when interacting. A no is a no. In case of doubt, ask them in IM during a scene or while interacting with them.
Mutual respect is intended as well between Dommes and Dommes, subs and other subs: live and let live. Dommes: do not intrude in other Dommes' interactions; subs, mind your manners: give the proper attention to all the Ladies, and to all: remember that these Land Rules - other than where LL TOS takes precedence - are above all. 

#2. No Male Doms or males dominating allowed on this land; we accept visitors but they will have to respect the House Rules as requested to all. Keep in mind that this is a Femdom, so Ladies come first and all males are supposed to respect and obey to them.

#3. subs are not allowed to sit on the Dommes' chairs or seats.
Kneeling is not mandatory yet standing in the presence of a Domme is forbidden unless you are requested to. When you can't kneel properly you can use a casual sit animation in the provided cushions.

#4. No age play, no child avatar: this is an Adult Sim. What constitutes a child av is decided at the discretion of the Strict Venus Staff and Owner.

#5. No escorts or Financial Dommes operating at Strict Venus. While we have no problem with people being any of these, no asking for money at any title here is allowed.
"Poaching" here is not allowed as well, and no promoting or advertising your own activity / land / group / store / money begging in the group chat or on the land. 

#6. Nudity is NOT allowed by default. A sub can be naked only at a Domme command, and a member of the Staff can request at any time to get dressed.

#7. Female switches are allowed on the land, but we request them to play just one defined role of their choice (Domme or sub) when on this land and keep it steady while here.

#8. While wearing the group tag here is not mandatory, it is encouraged - also to help others to address you correctly.
You can ask the Group Staff to be given a specific group tag (and in general for any help and concern about the land life and rules).
It is instead mandatory not to wear a tag that is indicating/promoting other Femdom lands while on here. You can simply take any group tag off - or wear a generic one.


Ignorance or not respecting the above rules will get you a temporary (1 week) or permanent ban, at Staff's and Owner's discretion.
Note that pestering them in IM will just add you to their Mute list and not get you un-banned from the Land.

Check the Staff List in the group, that you might join clicking this URL
(copy paste that in local chat and click on it to open the group information window):

secondlife:///app/group/589e16c4-63c5-a647-b0ea-691957898f61/about

Check our web blog for party pics and other ongoing activities!

F.A.Q.:

Q: [shemale Dommes] Can I be a Miss in your land if I am a RL male? 
A: No: male domination is not allowed in any form. There are specific lands for shemale Dommes as for any other flavor of Femdom.

Q: [IMing a Domme] Am I allowed to IM a Domme without permission? 
A: No: is always better to ask in chat before IMing a Domme, as permission to IM without previous consent in chat is entirely up to the Lady - and in general not considered polite.
If you can't ask in chat (i.e. you are far in the Land and need help or such), start your conversaton with: "I am sorry to IM without permission but ..". If you IM just to say "Hello" and you are even in chat range, that is considered unsolicited IMing and might cause you to be reproached, and if you insist, banned.

Q: [Weapons] Am I allowed to carry weapons on your Land?
A: Yes: but the weapons must be only worn and not used - in the case of a submissive. Not activated if they are scripted. A Domme can use weapons as long as it is for a consensual RP and it respects the submissives' limits (i.e. about wounds, mutilations, death). All is good as long as it is SSC: Safe, Sane and Consensual.

Q: [Privacy for RPing]: I see people playing. May I join them? 
A: No: respect others' privacy as you wish yours to be respected. If you wish to have an interactive playing you may scene in a public area or a BDSM playground.

Q: [Obeying orders]: Are submissives expected to obey <any> Dommes' order? 
A: No. A submissive is allowed to say no to a Domme, as long as the Domme is not requesting to him/her to respect the present rules. Remember that politeness is always requested for a basic conversation on both sides and that all are free to express their opinion as long as it is done respectfully. For instance if a Domme is requesting to a sub to do something against his collar/limit/willing, the sub can politely decline as in: "I am sorry Lady but my Owner does not allow me to play/is an hard limit for me.. " and such. The Lady on her side will respect the submissives' limits/willing and do not push forward as respect is mutual on this SIM. Of course a submissive is expected to be serving and a Domme to give orders - as the base of the D/s RP - but all must be done in the spirit of the SSC.

Q: [Open collars/RLV]: Am I allowed to play with an unowned submissive who lets his/her collar/RLV open to play?
A: No, is always better to ask permission before playing with a sub you don't know, as well as the submissive should NEVER self-leash him/herself to a Domme without express permission from the Domme.

Q: [Greetings]: Do I have to greet all the Mistresses by their names when greeting in and out? Do I have to ask permission to leave?
A: No, you don't have to greet all the Ladies by name, but a polite greeting to all: Ladies and subs is expected from a well mannered sub. As well as greeting out and announcing your departure - although no special permission needed for that.

Q: [Sitting in the Lounge]: Are submissives allowed to sit on the chairs in the lounge?
A: No: submissives can sit on the cushions or sit/kneel on the ground, while chairs and sofas are intended for Ladies only.